Look your best and let him see you having a great time without him. Try ignoring him lightly or talking about other guys in front of him. As a girl, it’s pretty easy to get any guy’s attention.
If a dude is all like, "Oh, I'm busy all weekend, how about Tuesday night?
There’s this guy I really like and at first things were great.
We texted constantly for about five days but then he suddenly stopped.
When we have a crush on someone, it can be hard to see them for who they really are, especially if that person is a player. They’re a little manipulative and they know how to get a girl to fall hard. If he's all about hooking up, that could definitely mean that he's just using you for sex or a steamy makeout sesh. The next time he asks if you want to hang out, say, "how about we go see a movie/grab something to eat?
" If his response is something like, "I'd rather just hang with you at my place :)" or there's no response at all, that shows that he just wants to hook up.